So
Mr. Trujillo is really into wanting us all to get to know each other. What do you do? For work? For fun? What is your greatest possession? What makes you belly laugh? What is your favorite movie? Favorite
quote?
I
used to be cool, had a plethora of friends, and loved a night on the town. Times have changed and here we are. My delusions
of grandeur for the day, these notions swaying to at any moment, especially as
a mother of four are a reality.
So lets see, for fun today, I woke
at 6am to let two dogs out, and then I cleaned up the remnants of a rug that a
German shepherd had torn to one billion single threads. Yay me! Then I got all prettied up for the drive to
school, lipstick, blush, and curling iron, ah…no, I put on a
sweatshirt and running shoes. The three oldest kids were readied for school and
delivered at that precise moment of tardy bell rings, “run, run, I love you,
have a great day!” I return home and
wait for the maid to arrive. Yep, no
maid, I still can dream- she will show up
one day. In the meantime, I am forced to
remove the massive dust bunnies that constantly appear, one would assume my
dogs were bald. Oh, but the fun begins when
my toddler rises. She is the ruler of
our castle, we merely reside and abide by her every need and desire and yes she
still sleeps with Mommy and Daddy and yes, she is four years old. Save the judgment, we let Nana have that joy. “Pick your battIes” they say and I listen then
respond, “well, we respect the toddler.”
After number four, I lose most
battles as my passion to win is lost. Just
morning, it was going to happen, a cupcake for breakfast- so I put it on her
plate. She takes one bite and gives it
to Gus, the stinky Basset Hound she likes to nap with. I do hope these deeply
held convictions, her enthusiasm, and her persistence, for it all to remain intact
at least until she graduates college and lands a great paying job so she can
afford the facility she will have forced me in. The dynamics of large families
are different, social norms are lost. There are 6 people living together under
one roof; it’s like a boxing ring or roller derby maybe. Never a dull moment, I
promise. Being a parent is my greatest possession, as well as my sense of
humor. The four best things to ever
happen in my world, in my eyes each one is a gift from God. My kids define me, even when their eyes shine
green and their heads spin or when in the middle of a department store with
great discernment, submitting to the urge,
“I poopied.” But there is a truth, bittersweet it is, that comes along
with the last, the youngest. Nadine is
not a perfect child, she does not listen, she hates my taste I clothes, eats
weird foods but she is a sweet snuggler, and says the warmest “I love you”s at
just the most needed times. If you have
kids, want kids, are amused by kids or
come from a large family, I strongly suggest http://www.jimgaffigan.com . oh, my favorite movie is Despicable Me!
“The
ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and
convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”
--Martin Luther King, Jr.
--Martin Luther King, Jr.





